Read more about how to tell if a girl likes you here.

However, if you haven’t known this person for that long, or you don’t feel that you’re that close, this kind of behavior strongly indicates that they might like you as more than a friend. If it seems like this person isn’t blinking as often, Toombs says, it could be another sign they’re interested in you.

Be aware. This is as general as it gets, and still, it’s incredibly important. If all you focus on is what’s going on inside your head, or your own feelings and reactions when you interact with a girl, then you will never develop a reliable “feel” for the situation, and the beautiful human being you have in front of you. The direct approach might seem like a good idea, but asking if she’s interested in you isn’t being direct — it’s seeking validation.

There’s a subconscious reaction called mirroring that people do when they like someone and it basically means to copy their body language. So here’s how this would look. Imagine you’re having a conversation with a girl and then cross your arms, lean back, rest an elbow on the table, lean forward, and then take a sip of your drink. If the girl you’re with copies all of that then she’s mirroring you and likes you.

Maybe she’s more of a casual girl, but if she wants to get your attention, she’ll put more effort into her outfit. She will always dress to impress. And that person that she wants to impress might be you. Does she get jealous when she sees you talking to other girls?

But if she seems to be pushing you to be interested in a friend of hers, you can bet she’s not that interested in you. (You might also thank her, because this can be a great way to meet new, qualified people.) Girls who are interested in you are going to want to keep you for themselves, not pass you off to her single girlfriends. Remain honest and open, both to her feelings and to the possibilities.

But If Everything Fails, Accept Defeat Graciously

• If a girl allows you to see the side of her she doesn’t reveal to anyone else, consider it a huge sign of her affection.
• What do you think is a better sign, a girl that doesn’t have to even think about it, or a girl who says, ““I guess”, like it’s the greatest decision she’ll ever have to make in her lifetime.
• If she consistently turns toward you, opens her posture to you or even touches you — on the elbow, or the shoulder, for example — she definitely likes you.
• Maybe they’re afraid that if they look, they’ll fall even deeper in love or maybe the gaze from their crush’s eyes is too intense and they’re scared of feeling vulnerable.

We agreed to be just friends, but my feelings for her have grown, not sure if hers has as well, most of the signs you speak of are all there, but she keeps telling me she not ready for a relationship, I don’t ask and have never told her how I feel, but she keeps reminding me of this on a regular bases. Thank you so much eat really help because I think a girl likes me and I want to know if she does like me. And those answers help me out a lot.

She is always smiling when she is around me. When a girl is showing you with her body that she is into you, then you need to take it as it is!

You might think that if you like a girl’s post that you’re doing just that, liking the post itself, but they don’t really see it that way. They tend to assume that a guy who likes their post is actually liking them and that’s why lots of your female friends might not like your updates that often. Assuming that a girl either isn’t into you sexually, or is but doesn’t want to broadcast it, or just doesn’t know you that well, then she usually won’t like your posts even if she follows them closely.

Okay so I’m gonna jump right into it. There’s this Starbucks I regularly go to and I’ve grown to know many of the employees but one in particular is obviously my favorite.

22. Does she touch you when you talk or in any other situations?

If she seems to like saying your name a lot, and she name-drops you to your friends… she definitely likes you, dude. Trust me on this one. Well, first of all, rejection isn’t the end of the world. It’s a normal part of life, and it has nothing to do with your value as a person or your self-esteem! But dating—or flirting, or talking, or whatever the kids call it these days — can be a lot easier once you learn how to pick up on people’s social cues.

She could be the woman of your dreams, standing right in front of you! Forget being too timid to approach her and ask one simple question to find out.