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If you want the hottest girl you’ve ever met, who you haven’t met yet to be your girlfriend sometime in the future, stay here. I’m not saying you have to fuck a bunch of chics and add them to your number, merely stating UNTIL you are ready – do NOT commit to one woman. Do NOT chase ONE woman. Do NOT do this to land the one hot chic you’ve been dreaming of and chasing half your life.

You do the math. Getting a girlfriend is easily attainable, if you have the right outlook and techniques.

1. Don’t Obsess Over “Getting A Girlfriend”

If she’s texting you, or asking to meet up, you know she’s probably interested. Finally, when the conversation is winding down, tell her you hope you can text again soon. Don’t leave the conversation until you’ve at least implied you want to do this again, and soon. Don’t sweat about how to compliment a girl, it’s easy. The trick is to make sure the compliment really speaks to her and is not too obvious.

So, don’t be shy in your pursuit to get a girlfriend. Get out there and find your next relationship. #10 Know what to do under the sheets.

• This is actually a fairly easy step, since you probably know where to meet women because you know where women are (everywhere).
• I’m not saying the girl you meet will end up being there for the rest of your life.
• Even if you’re in a bar and she’s not going anywhere it’s always good to walk away for a bit to go join your mates and give her some space so she rejoin her friends and tell them all about you.
• But also, you’ll know that there are several good women out there who you could be with.
• If you lead an interesting life, then show her a piece at a time, keeping her intrigued.
• As a woman, I know I constantly stop to pet all kinds of dogs wherever I am.

Don’t come up with a vague proposal of a plan or give her too many options to choose from so nothing gets established. Simply come up with a good date idea; one where you can speak and get to know each other properly (like a drink or a coffee) and give her a time and a place. Present her with a concrete plan she can’t refuse. When you know what you want, and don’t want, in a relationship, this puts you into the role of the selector.

She must know that you see her as a potential girlfriend — and not as a mere friend, or sex-friend. After kissing or having had sex, this is more obvious.

4. Weekend Getaways Are Nice

If you’re positive you’ll sound like you’re still pining for someone. In either case it’s best you avoid talk of “lovers lost” completely. If you’re having a great conversation, don’t cling too late. Give an excuse (after using Step 8 below) and get out of there before she’s sick of you.

Luckily, you’re in the right place for that, as I have a shit-ton of content about how to talk to girls and have better conversations. Hell, I even wrote a best-selling book about how to talk to girls.

She’s done this all for you don’t forget to show your appreciation with an honest compliment. Stop trying to get a girlfriend. The first step to getting a girlfriend is to stop trying. Instead go into every new interaction you have with women expecting nothing in return. You’ll be surprised by how “not giving a shit” about the outcome makes girls chase you.