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But you have to want this. That means, if you’ll sit through this whole list, you’ll know everything you need to know about how to get a girlfriend. With this list, you can go from the loneliest Day One to complete relationship bliss. Whatever reason is your reason, knowing more now is always better.

These rules and the steps must be followed even if it means your process takes a little longer than some other guy who is moving quicker. In the end, when all the dust and fog settles you’ll thank me for it even if you hate me along the way and that’s okay because I can take it. We’re NOT changing the world here and it’s obvious since the beginning of time men have managed to land some pretty amazing and yes beautiful women too. It’s unimaginable and hard to believe every one of them got everything right all the time from the beginning.

6. Learn to Flirt Like a Pro

If you don’t know how to talk to girls, you won’t be able to connect deeply enough to have a relationship with them. This approach will prevent you from jumping into something serious with a girl you’re not all that crazy about.

You’ve scoped out the scene and can use your surroundings. You know a bit about women and can work off her reactions. And, you’ve got conversation starters to move the conversation in a new direction. Once you’re in the conversation, you have to know what to say to a girl to keep that conversation going. Stop struggling with how to start a conversation with a girl and just work from conversation starters.

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• Going to a university is a big change in a person’s life.
• Any random schmuck with some game can bring home a high quality girl on any given night.
• If you start off hanging with her 3-4 times a week from the beginning, there’s not really much room for growth after that.

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating.

Bad Move #8 – Too Factual

If you start off hanging with her 3-4 times a week from the beginning, there’s not really much room for growth after that. And once she feels like the growth has stopped, things will start to stagnate. Plus if you try hanging with her less after that (like moving from 4 days a week to 2 days a week) she’s going to feel like something is wrong with the relationship.

You’ll have plenty of time to get to those stages — and, just as important, to see if you are truly compatible. Focus on really getting to know her yourself first.

The right way to approach getting a girlfriend is to see yourself as being good enough and then back that up, by making women feel attracted to you as you talk to them. Yes, that can work with some women, but with most attractive women that you meet, their dream is to be able to meet a guy who makes them feel like they need to live up to his expectations. They meet an attractive woman, they start to fall in love with her right away and they really want to get to be her boyfriend. You don’t need to ask her questions like, “So, are you looking for a boyfriend right now? ” because a woman will almost always say “No” or say that she’s not sure or say that she’s just enjoying life and has no plans on settling down.

But allow some time for you to both get to know each other well. And let her know that you’re interested in the possibility of having the relationship develop into something more serious that a mere fling.