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Then, reach out to friends, go out, and join clubs to meet more girls so you can make a connection. When you find a girl who interests you, ask her to go on a date. Trust me – when you’re a stand up guy, when you’re passionate about your life and you’re interested in living it, people (which does include women) will WANT to know about it and they’ll want you to share it with them. Communicate your life story to them in a way which is humble, fun, and interested (and creates a little attraction in women) and the right people WILL notice.

2. Know What You Want in a Woman (And Don’t Settle)

I’m saying “man” for a reason. Women tend to keep in close touch with their girlfriends, and men keep hitting on her all time — keeping her social motor going. We men, on the other hand… we often become complacent, and forget to nurture our social life outside the relationship. Even with our best friends. When you are infatuated… your priorities change, and all you want to do is to be with your loved one.

The mission doesn’t stop once you’ve entered the room. People often wonder how to get to this stage. They have what I call a “town mindset” – that sense of comfort only a big fish in a little pond can feel.

It’s no longer just you. It’s we. Before you jump into the “we,” you need to make sure you’re able to commit to a relationship. I’m not saying the girl you meet will end up being there for the rest of your life.

At least now you know for sure where you stand so you can move on and meet another girl you want to be your girlfriend. If she doesn’t respond or seems upset when you try to flirt, it could be a sign that she’s not interested in being your girlfriend right now. But that’s okay!

• If the first date as great and the second is a flop, then you can kiss (or not) that potential girlfriend goodbye.
• After some chatting, you might mention how well you get along.
• I’ve evolved into the kind of guy I wanted to be and I really like myself.
• This is still a question about values.
• Even if you have all the cards set up for you, don’t lead the other person on and then just drop them.

If you deny yourself exercise, you’re giving everyone your time but yourself. This needs to change – start putting the time on the calendar for you. A few hours a few times a week is no big ask.

You’re not going to find your girlfriend sitting at home playing WarCraft. Or maybe you will, who am I to judge?

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Make sure you act differently towards her friends than you do to her so they know that she’s special to you. For instance, hang out with her friends as a group. Spending time with with one of her friends alone could send her mixed signals and make her think that you’re interested in her friend. It’s okay if you’ve never heard of her interests or if you don’t like some of them, but don’t put her down if you don’t enjoy them. If you want to be relationship material, you need to make an effort to learn about her interests.

Remember, it’s hardly ever about you. Perhaps she has a boyfriend, or perhaps she’s a lesbian. Whatever it is, don’t worry about getting rejected and get on with life. Approach girls and don’t be afraid if they reject you or don’t want to talk to you.

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