2. Make Her Feel Involved

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Forming a relationship is not a set of rigid sequences. Rather, it’s a rocky road with unexpected turns and twists — and it’s different for everyone. The steps presented here will definitely help you. But they are guidelines, not rules.

It’s a lonely club if we’re being honest. If you have been trying to hook up with a girl for a while and it’s just not happening, be sure to arrive at that concert with a woman on your arm and you might find that the tables will turn. While everyone loves a good mystery man, real women love a guy who shows his good and bad side, with a side of quirky thrown in for good measure. In reality, women want a guy that they can be themselves around and that they can feel safe with, regardless of what they look like.

You really want to make her your girlfriend, so much so, in fact, that you start to get nervous and insecure around her. And you start to feel a little possessive. When you’re too available and text her back immediately every time it’ll make her think you have nothing else going on in your life. When you make your move don’t force it, let it happen when there’s a brief pause in the conversation and you’re both gazing into each others eyes.

If a friend tells you not to let this guy or girl in, you need to tell that friend to mind his or her own business. This is your life, and your future…not your friend’s. It would be a bummer to look back on life with regret that you didn’t make that first move or take a relationship you cared about to the next level. Don’t give up on a girl that easily. You probably don’t meet girls who stand out to you on a daily basis, so seize the opportunity.

• Nothing beats a face-to-face interaction.
• Communicate your life story to them in a way which is humble, fun, and interested (and creates a little attraction in women) and the right people WILL notice.
• “Women say they can tell if a relationship is going to work after the first kiss, after the first night of kissing, they just get a feeling, an intuition.
• Of course, if you’re taking risks and interacting with those women, it also becomes more apparent that they’re just regular people like you.

One huge mistake guys do that kills all attraction is to approach women in an overly safe manner. So that even if she rejects you, you don’t feel rejected because ‘you weren’t really trying’.

You’ll have plenty of time to get to those stages — and, just as important, to see if you are truly compatible. Focus on really getting to know her yourself first.

11. Cook Her A Meal

Make her like you by being yourself. You may not realise this but the reason you’ve been stuck with how to get a girlfriend is because you are not yourself around the women you’re attracted to. On the date start by complimenting her. Women can spend hours choosing a dress, putting on make up and doing their hair for the first date.

If they say thank you and want to leave, just say, “You’re welcome” and walk away. When a friend invites you to do something, always ask if others will be there. Encourage them to include people from different social circles so you meet as many of their female friends as possible.

So, if you’re hiding parts of yourself and trying to appear cooler or different than you are just to impress her, I’d suggest dropping the act. It’s only going to make the transition to girlfriend a lot more difficult. You’ve got to be willing and able to just be direct and say, “I enjoyed spending time with you, and I’m just not feeling that spark. You’re an amazing person, and I wish you the best! ”.